"...the key is to just relax and release, and deal only with what's left in front of you
 ...realize that life is giving you a gift, and that gift is the flow of events that takes place between your birth and your death. these events are exciting, challenging, and create tremendous growth. to comfortably handle this flow of life, your heart and mind must be open and expansive enough to encompass reality.......learn to stop resisting reality
...if you want to be content and enjoy your work, you have to let go of yourself and let events flow through you. your real work is what is left to do after all else passes through" -michael a. singer